Though her life was short she touched the lives of so many. Her story is one of strength, character, grace, love and compassion. She was born on April 29,2009 but her story begins way before then...

Saturday, June 27, 2009

CHROMOSOME #11

Who knew that you could write so much on just one baby who wasn't even here for a long time, but it seems that there is so much still unwritten about Abigail. We got a call last week from the genetics people trying to sum up what they found out from Abigail's genes. So you have 22 chromosomes and each has a double of it self or something like that, well it turns out Abigail's number 11 was missing some DNA and her number 22 had more than it was suppose to. For number 22 they said that she probably got that from me or Brian and we have to give blood for them to test to see, but she said that number 22 is not something to worry about it that darn number 11. With her having extra DNA in 22 you would have thought she was covered with missing some from 11 but she was missing A LOT more from 11. Yet even with them knowing that some of her DNA tore apart and some end up not coming back together and fell off (not really what happened but that is what I saw in my mind when she was describing it to me) they still don't know what cause her number 11 to have way less than it should. And they also don't even know if that stupid number 11 was the cause of her problems, so needless to say she has stumped them again. Abigail seems to be the rarest of babies they have no idea how she got the way she did, or how she survived as long as she did. But to be truthful me and Brian know that she survived as long as she did to show us the love of a child and that no matter how someone looks or their medical recorded they should be loved as the same if not even more than any one else and not just brushed under the rug. Oh and to that dumb Doctor who saw my child once and said that she had all these problems because she had down syndrome was not right at all I ask the genetics lady if that could have been the cause of her problem and she said that number 21 is what determines that and Abigail's 21 was perfect just like her.

3 comments:

  1. I do not understand the DNA info at all but I know she is a miracle and they might not be able to explain it ever! I love her so much, she is very special! I hope they are able to give you guys some answers. I miss her very much but I do not regret for one second the chance we had to know her! She is so beautiful!

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  2. I have a little girl called Abigail ... and she has part of her 11th chromosome missing too. Its called Jacobsens Syndrome.

    Your Abigail is a real angel, and I am so pleased to have stumble across your blog ...

    Alison and Abigail in France
    (The Bernard Bunch)

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  3. There is so much doctors cannot explain, because the fact of the matter is that nothing can stop God's will. And He wanted you and Brian to parent Abigail. It's not hard to see why. In such a short time you gave her so much love and really got to know her as a person. I am so glad for the time the you were all given together.

    Praying for you every day,
    Karen (Caryn's friend)

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