For the Love of Abigail Marie

As stories and recollections come to me they will be added to her blog so that we can continue to share in the love that Abigail brought to our lives. Jennifer shared a precious memory with me recently. My brother is not really a details kind of guy. He has a hard time remembering facts about people like names, dates, and particulars. However, when it came to Abigail he remembered every detail. She has a myriad of doctors and he remembered all of their names. She had several procedures and he remembered what they were called and when they were performed. I believe it is the love only a parent can know that calls us to action and engages our minds and spirit in ways like no other. His love for Abigail helped him to remember the important facts and details pertinent to her life. He may not remember how old he is or when your birthday is but he will forever remember the names of the plastic surgeon, neurosurgeon, occupational therapist and many other doctors that came in to her life. He will remember her many accomplishments and when they happened like breathing on her own,eating from a bottle, pooping, having her IV removed, and the day she came home from the hospital. He might not be a "details" guy but when it comes down to what really matters he will remember every element, fact and fine point. That is what father's do after all!